To use the cliche “never judge a book by its cover” would be to understate the obvious. The substance of an individual should never be measured by their appearance…simply because one desires to project through visual expression of outward appearance the effort that has been made to better themselves, no one individual should ever determine they have no mental prowess to back their physique. It takes self discipline to achieve a result in any endeavor, and the promotion of a developed physical form is no exception. And lest anyone forget, one should know the true intellect of a person before determining their worth based on their decision to enhance their outward appearance. I for one have studied and read intensely my whole life, and to be judged by anyone simply based on how “pretty” I may or may not be perceived to be, I find appalling…

“A Rose by any other name, would still smell as sweet”…but remember…when reaching to pick one, it still has thorns sharper than a Tiger’s teeth…

John was the lonely one, maybe one of the only ones … who really knew what would make the world a better place…

Happy Birthday…Rest in Peace my dearest Michael…you were such a wonderful talent, and as such…always so misunderstood, but you were the one that reminded us to look at the “man in the mirror” and see him looking back at us… 

If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make that change

Now I didn’t really like the scene,  ( Mitchell Brothers in SF) but I loved watching Lola… I watched her in a trance like state, I know now why they call it “exotic dancing” as I just thought the movements of the woman’s body… of her body ! were so very sensual and erotic.

I even read once that Ms. Janet J. herself said…”I love stripping too, because I know he loves it” and I bet you she was hot…  But a professional striptease artist, she is truly in a class above when it comes to sensual expression with her body…

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My Song for today… “Again” by John Legend…

The first time we ever got a chance to be alone we knew,
That it was wrong to do,
I guess that’s why I was drawn to you,
The 2nd time leads to the 3rd, the 4th, the 7th time,
I feel so alive, it won’t last but it’s alright,
Pleading joy and fading ecstasy, here it goes again oh,
Sneaking fruit from the forbidden tree, Sweet taste of sin,

And I’m doing it again; yes I’m doing it again,
Oh I’m doing it again, I said it would end but here it goes again…

2. Okay … I’ll get “somewhat” serious about me in 2000 words or less…  Probably Less maybe more.  Get that from my being back in college again, and expanding my mind

3.  I smile when I can, apologize when I should, let go of everything I am unable to change, love deeply, forgive quickly, take chances always, give it everything I have, and as always … with no regrets. I take the good with the bad, laugh when it gets ruff, accept what I have, not worry about what I do not, remember the good times, learn from my mistakes, take responsibility for my actions, accept that people change, and … that life goes on… Are you taking notes?  Basically though, I’m just me … I seldom let myself take life too seriously, nor too lightly… and I’ve had fun so far

4. My first real goals in life were singing and dancing, I used to put on my own shows during the holidays  Now I sing when I’m happy, and dance only occasionally  I should have been a Showgirl that was always my passion.

5. I am a freak for great Sushi and a perfectly prepared Steak.  I have always loved favor in my food, and in my life growing into being much more selective in all things now and loving it…

6.  I love the Great White Way though I have only been there once.  I have also never been through Central Park in a carriage, but know I want to someday

7.  Born and raised a California girl, with racing in my Blood.  I have always been a bit of a Speed Freak when it comes to Automobiles, low and fast tight in the curves with plenty of horsepower

8.  I used to wish I was an only child, but since they wouldn’t send all my little brother’s away, I finally got used to having them pester me

9.  I met Travis Barker, the drummer from Blink-182 at a party in the ˜90s (anyone remember them?), and we talked for most of the night about music.  I lost my date, but still had a wonderful time

10.  Growing up in the Central Valley was an itchy disgusting weather nightmare.  I prefer the coast in the LA area, or up in the Bay area, and I love Sausalito

11.  I had a friend who traveled to Thailand a lot, and I have always been intrigued with Asia.  So, I got him to shop for me and fill a suitcase with fabrics and arts International travel, everywhere and anywhere but especially Europe, with Asia as a close second.

12.  I have always mixed all my Chinese food together on my plate don’t ask me why, I just like it that way.  ;-P

13.  I stay up very late, even when I have to get up really early Insomnia?  Maybe, or I just cannot stop reading and put down my book…

14.  My first special car was Fire Engine Red with a Black interior and a place for my iPod.  I loved just driving in it, even when I wasn’t going anywhere

15.  When I was young, my Grandma taught me, if you put a little salt on your fruit, it tastes much sweeter and that’s how I like it now  And if you think about it, that’s kinda a parable for life, the salty times they make the good ones…just that much sweeter to enjoy

16.  Everyone was so hot for the iPhone, I had one all of 1 day  I don’t know what the fuss was all about, I HATED the touch screen  They don’t work when you want, and they scratch to easily  And typing texts forget it.

17.  Is it just me, or is Wal-Mart a homeless shelter?  I’m all about a bargain on essentials, but seriously Then again, if you think about it…Wal-Mart is a lot like the streets of Vegas too much of it will drive you insane!!!

18.  I don’t watch much TV  I watch Law and Order or House Oh…and Home Improvement Shows. Now I want to get my own house, just so I can tear it all apart and rebuild it my way

19.  When they invented Text messaging, they killed that art of actual conversation.  Does anyone but me miss talking in complete sentences, and actually saying something meaningful?

20.  I absolutely prefer a long soothing warm bath to a shower

21. I have what I call a healthy disdain for all forms of personal drama.  I find it sad that people feel the need to create it It doesn’t just happen, they create it for attention What happened to people?

22.  I have two toy Doggies now Yeah, they can be little Rats sometimes, but you gotta Love ˜em, because they Love you so much, they cuddle right up to show you

23.  I Love a good Breakfast in the morning.  I hate chain restaurants and poorly prepared eggs from room service.  I like my bacon crispy but not burnt, and my potatoes with some zest not a mash of hash and grease

24.   !   Is the true meaning of life if you get it, you got it, if you don’t, then I’ll have to explain it Only not here, and not now;-P

25.  Just as mountains budge not to the wind, so to are those faithful within themselves, never moved against their faith, neither by flattery, nor by blame.  Like a deep blue lake, clear and calm, those with internal faith will find a positive strength when hearing words of truth.  But for those who lack true sense of self, though they may hear the truth, ponder it or meditate upon it…with minds like water seeping from leaky faucets, they will not have the truths of life settle within their soul, not until they may accept themselves for who they truly are…

And with that I don’t really know what else to say about myself…  It would be more interesting if you wanted to find out for yourself… Yeah!!! that’s the ticket.  Ask me anything you want to know…I love engaging conversations, and would especially enjoy talking with you. I actually like answering questions…but please, no harsh lighting… I consider myself a genuine person…  I like meeting new people, and going new places…  Whenever I have a question, I ask…  Getting right to the point makes communicating so much easier.

So, what about you?

Should though, you be feeling especially Generous, and have an inkling to make a gift of something that would further enhance our experiences together, well then, here are a few ideas to ponder next time you are perusing my Gallery Clothing & Shoes Shoes Shoes Well, I totally Love Clothes, but then .. What Woman Doesn’t? But, because of my Dancers Figure, a select Gift Card always works best.So, here’s a list of my favorite stores, brand and websites Clothing for the special occasions Bebe, BCBG Max Azria, Gucci, Guess  Nordstrom’s, Macy’s, Neiman Marcus cbslimited.com, edressme.com and I just love Jovani Dresses. You could also send me an email with your favorite store’s site, and I will be happy to pick something out with you…

I Love Shoes We can never go wrong with a gift card from a Shoe Establishment as I really do just Love Shoes! My favorites are Aldo, Michael Kors, Steven Madden, BCBG, Manolo Blaniks and Louis Vuitton  or, check out Zappos.com and 6PM.com, and surprise me In pursuit of the perfect Make-up MAC I will say no more Or a Purse to carry my Make-up in a Louis Vuitton A secluded getaway for Leisure New York, Vegas, the Caribbean, Hawaii, Reo de Janeiro Is there any place special I might accompany you? Or would you like to treat me too a wonderful getaway Disney Land or Disney World perhaps? As I just love to have fun…

Adorned in Jewelry Bangles and Bows and things that Glows … Spiegel’s has some wonderful costume Jewelry, or anything big and ornate. I also like Princess Cut Diamonds For the Home Ikea, Bed Bath and Beyond, Crate and Barrel or Target,

The Homegoods Store, Pier 1 Imports and Ashley Furniture I really love Asian Arts and I am very much into Interior Design. Everything else iTunes Gift Cards, as I simply love Music and Singing  Walden Books, Borders, or Barnes and Noble Spa Gift Cards  and this may seem a bit Quirky … but I just love Colorful Hosiery Check out my Gallery, and if you are observant, you will get the idea And … Pure Extravagance If you really want to show me just what you think of me  think RED think BMW

To the realm of soft elusion, floating on waves of air, seagulls drift effortlessly on the evening sky. On a distant shoreline, she waves to me, and all my thoughts of sleep become dream. To the path of my bright lit way, the streams of my fortunes there abound. Giving me the power to be unafraid, that in my mind I fly to her, on wings of angel’s song.

And made my way back home to the Valley as well, but that is another story all together… I had the opportunity to visit New York City, which was such a wonderful experience…all the sounds, the way they live their NYC life…  It was kind of a Bee Hive experience, there are just so many people there. But all in all, a very fun and exciting place to visit, though I could not live there…

I really enjoyed seeing everything I could, Saint Patrick’s Cathedral was so moving, what a building…  But my most memorable experience was how proud I felt of the strong cultural presence to see “the Color Purple.”  And how the racial diversity in Harlem was just the coolest thing I have ever seen, with everyone there getting along so well.

Just getting you caught up or recent events, with much more to come…